Ever wondered what the right woman looked like or who she looked like. Maybe she had the gentle smiles of Cindarella or the long, flowing hair of Rapunzel. Or you thought she had the never-lying hips of Shakira or the charming cat eyes of Regina Askia, well there is more beyond looks and smiles and hips and hair.

The woman, that special woman is the one that keeps you on your feet. On hearing her name, you turn around to be sure if she’s the person. You call her number often that you forget how hard the days have been and you have made up your mind that she is the one.

Then you need to look at these five points & add it to probably the list you have cause every man knows what he wants a in woman.

1) What is her temperament compared to yours:

We are different people with different temperaments. We are just different in many ways and that makes each of us unique and our DNA even strictly states that. If you would be considering her to be the one then you must note that she has different temperament from yours though not too different on the other hand for you to be able to handle. This is because people with the same temperaments never give a good result. Here are the four list of temperaments of human being; the sanguine, the melancholy, the choleric and the phlegmatic. You can read further on this type of temperament for you to know yours and know who best suits you.

2) Character:

As it i usually said, “charisma may take you to high place but character keeps you there” the character of woman you want to make the one matters, not even in this African setting where a woman’s character matters in every level our social life. A lady with 100% charisma level & 0% character is bad, is even worse is a lady of 0% charisma & character. You need a woman of good character cause as a man you can’t pay attention to those your nasty behaviour but your woman should be better than you so that your best can come out. In this very aspect of character it comes with being a trustworthy and contented woman. This helps you to relate better with your family and friends.

NOTE: There are cases where men misunderstand their women especially when she rejects some of your friends. It doesn’t mean she has a bad character. It probably means that they have bad attributes that she won’t want you to be contaminated with. Look deeply at those association and compare the good it brings to your relationship to the bad it brings then be the judge of it so you can point out selfishness in this area.

3) How much does she love:

Well it’s easy to tell when a lady loves a guy and sometimes some ladies could be complicated. You need to pay attention to this area cause a woman who really loves you will take you for who you are not only for what she gets from you in cash or kind. You know she is in love with you if she makes you her best friend and tells you everything in everything not pretending to be someone else. She’ll be free, nasty and lovely when with you. She is in love with you, if you are part of her plans and she respect you. She won’t treat you like a piece of foot mat, wanting always to be with you. She’ll smile at your dry jokes and later tell you the truth. She is in love with you if she corrects you and you still accept your weakness. She is in love with you if she she doesn’t compare you with any other guy but sees you as the centerpiece of her life. Brother if you visibly see these signs, what are you waiting for she is totally in love with you and she is the one.

4) If you can’t get her off your mind:

Here, you need to be sure of your feeling for you not mess things up cause most of the time men are driven by their testosterone and not by their heart. A lady is compared to a “good thing” the bible says “he who finds a wife finds a good thing and who can find a good woman her price is far above rubies”. Therefore, a good thing is a precious thing that gives you joy, you laugh for no reason, it makes you proactive and always makes you want to be the best. A good thing gives you this peace and assurance that makes you know you have finally found a heart to call home.

5) Devotion:

This aspect is important to this topic and there is no way we can leave it out. It is widely believed that women tend to have great quality of devotion to spiritual things and if you are a spiritual man you need a woman who can help boost your spirituality. This makes her complete woman.

Note: in your search for the right one you also must be the right one cause “you get what you are” so brother work on yourself too. Have fun and be a great man.